Appreciate

It is very easy to dismiss those who are in your corner. We naturally take things for granted. Those of us able to walk do not have the same appreciation for legs as say someone in a wheelchair. Often the actions of a person who has had your back for so long can become like the legs of a mobile person. You have always had them therefore; it diminishes appreciation for them as it is just expected. On the opposite end, it is just as easy for the people having you back to become conditioned to have your back without need for reciprocity. This creates an unhealthy dynamic whereas over time, the receiver cannot recognize the crutch and becomes dependent and the giver can become resentful for lack of appreciate. In these times 'fuck the world' and 'Jesus will fix it' are the usual rhetoric. We are misguided and have an anti-social/only God got my back culture so it is important to remember those ones truly in your corner. Equally as important we must also not allow the ones we do care for to take advantage of the love.

The Smart Hoe

We are in a time where ratchetness is glorified, being a thot is proper protocol and twerking is the social norm. Classless behavior has always existed but not until this age has it come to be the consciousness of the majority. I recently heard a female say "Bitch I'm a muthafucking queen and you will respect me as such" and it's hilarious right up until the moment you realize she actually believes that herself. This modern woman has become under educated and over confident. Our relationships will continue to suffer until she regains the proper perspective. 

Check out the below video as TBA breaks it down.